A blog about the life of a 30+ man from Sweden living in Philadelphia. Deals with everyday stuff, like becoming a parent in June 2011 and the thoughts that come with it.
Friday, December 2, 2011
Foot-In-Mouth
Today is Beano's first day without his mamma. The Wife returned to work today and grandma is watching him. Hopefully he behaves and doesn't make her regret the offer to watch him.
The Wife was emotional going into work today, it is the longest she has been away from Benji since his birth and misses him dearly.
xoxo,
Philly Swede
Monday, November 28, 2011
Thanksgiving
Beer wise, it was a good day too. The Wife bought some Epic Pale Ale (she is a good Wife) and I had a Southern Tier Pumking Ale with dinner - delicious!
Beano did well the whole day and spent a good amount of time hanging with of the uncles.
Sleep traning is improving, but he still wakes up a few times per night.
xoxo,
Philly Swede
Monday, November 14, 2011
Sleep Training
So, last Friday was the first night of sleep training and it was... loud at times. We put him down at his normal bedtime, between 19:00 and 19:30 (if you don't know the 24hr clock, hang your head in shame). After ten minutes or so we hear Beano fussing and soon it escalates to full on screaming. Since we are sleep training him, we can do nothing but let him air it out (I once went upstairs to tell him he was safe and it was time to sleep - he didn't listen). After 22 minutes of wailing, he finally calmed down and we could hear him sobbing as he fell asleep.
The following two nights were uneventful and he fell asleep by himself without any crying. Monday night I was put in charge with preparing him for bed and bottle feeding him. The result? Back to square one! I had barely walked downstairs before he started with his fake coughing which then turned into fussing and finally screaming. He didn't cry for as long this time, only twenty minutes.
The Wife doesn't like the sleep training, she says that it hurts her heart to hear him cry like that. I, on the other hand, am a heartless bastard and carry on like I can't hear him.
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Tall Boy
The doctor said everything looked fine, except for his rashes. We were told to lube him up many times a day and his rashes should improve quickly. Were given a list of creams to use on him, I asked if we could dip him in lard.
Next step in his development is the quest to make him sleep through the night. At the moment, he wakes about two times per night but according to his age he should be able to sleep from 20-6. The process of making him sleep for a longer period won't be fun. It requires us to make him cry without us picking him up to comfort and calm him down. We should only observe him and possibly put a hand on him to make sure he is fine, nothing more.
Looks like I'll be a stay-at-home dad and grad student come spring. Had to take the TOEFL to prove my English was good enough for school. I scored 108 out of 120. Next up is the GRE, not looking forward to it.
At the moment I am looking forward to the spring and the changes it will bring. I am sure it won't be easy juggling Beano and school, but I feel now is the time to make a career change before I am too old and even grumpier.
Oh well, one thing at a time. First I have to make it through this afternoon so that I can go home.
xoxo,
Philly Swede
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Back from.... nowhere
Your favorite non-blogger is finally back! No good reasons/explanations/excuses for not updating the blog with mindless entries other than that I have been a little busier at work lately.
Anyway, Beano is four months old today and he acts like it. His body and mind is rapidly developing and learning how the different body parts work and interact with each other.
For instance, last night when I checked on him, he was sleeping on his belly so I asked the Wife to see if she put him down like that. Nope, she said, looks like the little genius actually managed to roll-over. (Of course as we were admiring his achievement he woke up screaming).
Considering his many rashes (his butt looks good, though), he is a happy and smiley boy. Laughter and smiles radiates in abundance from his kind heart! (Not sure if the previous sentence makes any sense, but you should get the picture).
On Monday is his four month check-up, has he surpassed 16lbs yet?
Beano got an early Christmas present from his kiwi-grandma. It's a Jumperoo which he loves to use. It allows him to stand and jump because just sitting or lying on his back isn't fun anymore. This amazong toy also allows the Wife to eat breakfast in peace as he is happily jumping in one place.
The time is currently 10:40 am, in 20 minutes he will be at baby-yoga with his mother (the Wife). Beano has a tough life...
xoxo,
Philly Swede
Friday, July 29, 2011
Benjamin!
On 7/3 at 11:48 am and after many hours of labor, Benjamin was born. He weighed 4400 grams and measured 22 inches long. I won't bore you with details from labor, all I can say is that I didn't sleep for 37 hours and that the Wife kicked butt! I am very proud of her and her efforts of pushing that giant baby out.
Benjamin, the giant baby, is doing well. Coming home from the hospital was weird, but it also felt natural. Even though I had not changed a single diaper before, I dove right in and made sure his behind was clean and dry. He is a nice baby and lets me sleep during the nights (The Wife takes care of feeding day and night) and run in the mornings (I have probably run five times in three weeks, I don't consider me to be a avid runner).
With the Wife responsible with the small task of feeding and keeping Benji alive, I am helping out with the rest of the chores. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, she names it and I do it. Luckily, I am a modern man who can cook...
People keep asking me what it feels like to be a dad. Honestly, I feel the same I did before. I don't interact with Benjamin, I merely take care of him. That is because he has no clue who I am and is only interested in eating and pooping. Will my feelings change as he gets older? I sure expect it!
Anyway, I apoligise for this rambling post. I hope to be posting more regular updates in the future, can't promise any improvement in quality though...
Have a good weekend.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Past Due Date
Wednesday, June 15, 2011
Philly Beer Week
I survived beer week even though my buddy, who visited from Sweden, did his best to kill my liver. It was good to see someone from home, he was my first visitor from the motherland since June of last year when he last visited. We had a good time trying new beers (Cali-Belgique IPA) and old trusted friends (Crooked Tree IPA). We even squeezed in a trip to DC to check out the White House and Capital Brewing Company.
Tomorrow is Thursday. On Thursday, there are only seven more days until the due date. I have a feeling that Sam won't come until after 6/23, probably around 6/27 would be my (un)qualified guess.
We are ready for the baby, now the waiting continues.
Monday, June 6, 2011
Full Term
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Canada Cup
Playing in the tournament made me feel old, very old. The kids we were playing against were mostly in the early twenties, my teammates and I are in our thirties... Luckily we can still kick the kids' behinds were it matters, in drinking (I will not expand on the drinking part. If you know me and my teammates, you should know what I am talking about).
Four weeks to go until the birth of Samster. We are more or less ready for Samster's arrival, just need to wash the baby clothes and put up some curtains. The Wife's belly is big and moves quite a lot when Sam is trying to get comfortable in there.
More and more, she is transforming into mama-mode, I am still clueless and in denial of what will happen in about a month.
Monday, May 16, 2011
Guest post by the Wife
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
So Much Action
Samster's room and the rest of the house is slowly coming together. The plan is to finish assembling the crib and rocking chair this week, the dresser is already in place. I think Sambo has a nicely sized room, I am sure he/she will like it.
Speaking of the Samster, only six more weeks to go until due date. Time for me to get nervous yet? Sam has now turned and head is pointing downwards. Maybe it will be harder to feel the hiccups now. Did not know babies get hiccups in the belly, now I do and it feels very cool.
On Sunday, I brewed my first batch of beer. It went well, but I have to wait four weeks until I can try it. I brewed a copper colored IPA, next up is a black IPA.
I am planning to post photos, stay tuned and patient until I do.
Monday, May 2, 2011
Shower Time
The shower was planned by the mother of The Wife and two childhood friends (S+G). Kudos to the ladies for organizing everything!
Knowing my place and role at the shower, I was mostly hanging out in the kitchen and watching the Wife open the gifts from afar. We got a lot of useful stuff, especially the car seat. Thank you, the mother of the Wife.
Hard to believe that next month is the due date. In about eight weeks, I'll become a dad and life will change.
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Guest Post by The Wife
Monday, April 25, 2011
Hoppy Easter
In the afternoon we put together the dresser that will be in Sam's room. The dresser is big, but I have a feeling Sam will be bombarded with clothes and toys and a big dresser will be needed.
On Sunday, we went to Jersey for dinner.
Less than two months until the scheduled birth of Sam. Time to get nervous yet?
Friday, April 15, 2011
Birth Class
Monday, April 11, 2011
Getting There
Monday, April 4, 2011
Post-moving
I’m still here, been busy with packing and moving the last few days. Saturday’s move went well, kudos to all who came out and helped the Wife and me/I.
Felt a little bit sad leaving the apartment where we spent the past 3½ years. When we moved into the apartment on
I think Samster is growing well even though he/she is still an eggplant according to Wife's weekly email. She is very miffed about it, guess I should be too. Truthfully (I hate when grown-ups use that word), some sort of change in vegetable/fruit would be fun. Think Sam is supposed to gain lots of weight these the coming and I can't wait until Sam has the weight and size of a (small) pumpkin. The Wife might not be so pleased though, tossing and turning in bed is already a nightly struggle.
We like the new place so far. However, there is a slight problem with quarter-sized hole in the pipe taking water from the washer which leads to a small fountain in the basement each time we do laundry. The landlord has been notified and I'll keep you updated with the progress (or lack thereof) of the repairs.
Friday, March 25, 2011
Slow Today
Guess I should take advantage and go to games and happy hours while I can, at the end of June I will be needed at home and can't be running around having fun, right?
I know, another boring post. Just feeling too tired and hungry to produce a masterpiece.
XOXO
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Double Digits
Sam is getting more powerful each day. Last night he/she showed that placenta who is boss.
I think we are having a boy, the Wife thinks girl. One of us will be right.
Friday, March 18, 2011
Dreaming of Beer
Wonder why I have so many ideas now that I'm having a mini-me. Is it because I worry about getting older and won't have time for fun stuff anymore? That is possibly the case. Or is simply because I have too much idle time on my hands when at work? That is more likely the case.
Nevertheless, names have been picked out for my brews; the unfiltered wheat is called Schuykill; the light pilsner is Hipster Delite; my awesome IPA shall be named Hoppy Hippo. The stout is yet to decided. Do you have any suggestive suggestions?
Miffed Liverpool were eliminated yesterday.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Stay-at-home dad?
We are pondering if I should be a stay-at-home dad to avoid daycare costs. Since I don't make much money, staying home would not be a big loss for us. I honestly wouldn't mind staying home with Sam and getting know the little monster. How hard can it be to take care of a six-month old?
Monday, March 14, 2011
Car seat; check!
With that, our registry is finalized. Bring on the Baby Shower!
The rest of the weekend was pretty quiet, but good. Tried to run on Saturday, but my knee hurt too much after 13 minutes. No Wilmington Half Marathon on 3/27 for me :( That sucks, I was actually looking forward to to run the race.
Sunday was good. Started the day with brunch at Bridgids where we said good bye to Michelle, the bartender, who got a new gig. Then we went on a 4.5 mile walk to South Philly where I got a hair cut and hung out with some friends of the Wife's.
Monday did not start off well. Some douches where out in their backyard smoking at 3 am. Their talking woke us up and even though they went inside after a while, the next smoke break was in 30 minutes. The smoking and talking continued until 5:30 am...
Wish we could leave the city and live more rurally.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Signed, sealed and delivered
Next step is to get furniture for Sam (whose size by the way, is equivalent to a small bag of sugar). Crib, changing table and dresser, am I missing anything of importance?
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Kicking and Punching
Does it feel more real now? To an extent yes, but until I hold Sam in my arms, it will not be 100% real. How real is it now? Don't know, I can't quantify it.
We are still struggling to find a car seat that fits the Saturn. The backseat is not long enough and the car seats we have tried out so far have all been dangling over the edge of the seat. When I grew up, that would not have been a problem, but nowadays it is. Sam is not even allowed to leave the hospital unless he/she is in a safe car seat. Why do they care how we transport our baby home?
Friday, March 4, 2011
Waiting
Weekend starts today. Going to play squash with S tonight and tomorrow is Philadelphia Craft Beer Festival. Two Swedes and I are going to the Navy Yard to sample several beers.
Sunday morning is christening for baby L. His pappa is Swedish, mamma from Texas (I think). The event will take place at the Old Swedes Church in south Philly, depending on how it is, Sam/papaya will also have his/her christening there. I can do without christening, but the Wife wants it.
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Not homeless after all?
Monday, February 28, 2011
A week with nothing going on
Tuesday I met a Swede for drinks. I had a good time speaking Swedish and discussing business ideas. Was happy to hear that he liked an idea I have. Now I need to get it started.
Wednesday was spent cleaning the apartment to make it ready for the landlord to list it. Still have to find something to move to next month.
Thursday was vodka tasting with Swedish Chamber of Commerce at Racquet Club of Philadelphia. I am normally not a vodka drinker, but trying different types of liquor made for an interesting and fun night.
Friday I looked at a house to rent on Poplar. The house would have been a good investment since it was well priced and had a garage and good layout. But it would have been too much that needed fixing to make it worthwhile for us.
On Sunday (Saturday was very relaxed and non-eventful), a trip to Target and Wegmans in Collegeville. We mostly finalized our registry at Target, though we still need a car seat. Otherwise, we are pretty much done. Listed some onesies and bottles yesterday, bring on parenthood, we are well equipped!
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Travel Bug...
Even though we just got back from trips to Sweden and Mexico in January, I'm itching to hit the road again. A road trip to Pittsburgh would be more than enough to scratch the itch. Put that in context with my post from yesterday about moving and all you hobby-psychologists out there can analyze me.
The Wife found the photos from the 20 week ultrasound, maybe she is not the worst-mother-of-the-year after all. And she made me delicious lunch, the Wife rules!
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Fergie's
Short, rambling post today. Maybe better tomorrow.
Monday, February 21, 2011
Happy Presidents Day
Had a good weekend. Saturday was wedding day with A+G doing it, getting married that is. Windy and chilly day, but fun. I enjoyed the beers and fell/bounced off the bed at home, to the amusement of the Wife. Enjoyed the attention and comments the belly got, people seemed genuinely excited. I am not a person that would comment on other people's pregnancy bellies, but maybe I should.
Sunday was slow. Had brunch at Bridgids followed by watching three NHL games. Felt better than expected.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Slow
Will have more to report after weekend, Saturday is the A+G wedding!
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Interview
The belly is getting bigger by each day. Hopefully, we should start feeling some kicks soon. I want kicks, that would make the whole pregnancy feel more real to me. It is still abstract to me, shopping for strollers and looking for day care doesn't change that. Kicking will.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Sunday Round-Up
Spent the afternoon with G, she helped me prepare for a job interview.
Still need to decide on a car seat.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Progress
Still, list is far from complete. We still need to pick a car seat.
Friday, February 11, 2011
Friday Afternoon
Early morning on Saturday, we are going to beautiful Cherry Hill in New Jersey to see what Buy Buy Baby has to offer and to start a registry. We are pretty clueless what we should put on the registry. Expect us to add a lot of crap but omitting the important stuff, like a crib.
20+ weeks
Monday, February 7, 2011
Monday - tired
Sunday brought Liverpool v Chelsea and Superbowl. Very happy with the Liverpool win and with Torres leaving the pitch without perfmorming well against his former club. Superbowl was hosted by a Swedish couple. Drank many beers, hence my tiredness.
Found out that a fellow Philly-Swede and his wife are having a baby. I am at that age when people are starting to re-produce. The Wife has two lady-friends that are due around the same time as we are. Guess it is a good thing they can share their thoughts/worries and whatever research they do. Maybe I should do the same with the fellow Philly-Swede.
Friday, February 4, 2011
Friday
Do have to pack and getting rid of crap before upcoming move later this spring.
Want to run tomorrow morning, but the forecast calls for freezing rain and/or snow. Maybe I'll just go the gym instead.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Sunny today!
Beginning of a new chapter
Writing this blog is also a new chapter. This is my first ever blog and I normally don't write, hope you'll enjoy it.